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Marcia Kester Doyle of Menopausal Mother is Getting Possessed with Kathy and the Dishwasher

March 20, 2014 By Kathy Radigan 31 Comments

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Happy first day of Spring! Welcome to the 11th installment of, Getting Possessed with Kathy and the Dishwasher.

Each month I beg, I mean very nicely ask, one of my blogging friends to spend a little time with the Dishwasher and me.  I always have so much fun getting to know these amazing writers a bit better and of course the Dishwasher loves to hear about other possessed appliances that reside across the country.

This month I am so excited to introduce you to the wonderful Marcia Kester Doyle of the fantastic blog, Menopausal Mom.

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Marcia and I met as fellow contributors to  Sunshine After the Storm : A Survival Guide for the Grieving Mother. I instantly fell in love with her ability to move me to tears at times with pieces like, The Box ,(which is in Sunshine After the Storm), and  The Sister Bond , yet can also make me double over with laughter with her essays,  Neighbors from Hell,( in In The Powder Room) and You Might Be Menopausal If.

Marcia, Menopausal Mom is such a great name for a blog, how did you come up with it?

When I started going through menopause, the symptoms were making me insane and I wanted to connect with other women who were going through the same, awful experience ( Misery loves company). Writing has always been an outlet to express my frustrations, so why not reach out to some equally frazzled, hot flashing women?

Is this your first blog?

Yes. It started off as a sounding board for middle-aged women but I felt that I was limiting my audience, so I began writing on a variety of topics that appealed to both young and old, male and female.

Marcia what are the three pieces that you feel best define you and your site?

I think one of my funniest posts is Living Large in Zumba Land This depicts the humorous side of being middle-aged and trying to do things that younger women accomplish effortlessly. I also love a poignant one I wrote awhile back called, A Letter to My Younger Self, It sums up so much of my life. For a more humorous look at my struggles with menopause, my favorite is a post titled, 10 Reasons Why I Love Menopause.

How does your husband and kids feel about your blogging career?

When I first started blogging, my family complained about the amount of time I spent in front of a computer.

I’m going to embarrass myself here and admit that I had NO CLUE how to turn on a computer two and a half years ago!! I took a class and a few months later started my blog. I was obsessed with it from that point on.

Nowadays my family is used to foraging in the refrigerator for freezer-burned hot dogs and watching me spray Febreze all over their clothing to mask the fact that I haven’t done a load of laundry since the summer of 2011.

I love that you had no clue as to how to turn on a computer before you started blogging and your home-keeping skills have gone by the wayside too! Always great to find a kindred spirit.

Marcia, you have 5 chinchillas, a rabbit, 2 pugs and a pomeranian, plus you live in a home that has been certified as a wildlife sanctuary, have you always had a love of animals and nature or it is a new passion?

I grew up in a household similar to Dr. Doolittle’s home. We owned cats, dogs and a crazy toucan, but the real fun began when my sister took a job at a wild bird care center. On any given day, it wasn’t unusual to find a pelican in the shower, a vulture on the desk and baby bats curled up on the bed. I couldn’t imagine a life without animals, so I started a menagerie of my own after I got married.

Once the kids grew up, I still had those strong, nurturing instincts, so I ended up channeling my inner Snow White and adopted quite a few stray critters. My husband would argue this point and say that I have started a small petting zoo aboard the mini Noah’s Ark we call home. I take care of all the outdoor wildlife as well, providing food and shelter for anything with wings or four legs. This would also explain how I earned the nickname, “The Squirrel Whisperer.”

I don’t think I have ever known a “Squirrel Whisperer” before! Very cool.

Marcia as you may know I always give the Dishwasher a chance to ask a few questions. Since you do have such a full house and full life, the crazed appliance would like to know if there is one household appliance that you could never live without?

My refrigerator. Not only does it hold my secret stash of chocolate chip cookie dough, it also doubles as a source of entertainment for my youngest teenager. He opens the double doors every ten minutes in the hopes that something tasty will magically appear on the shelves.

What is the first appliance you ever bought yourself?

A microwave…..back when they were still “new” and considered futuristic. Yes, I am from the Jurassic Era when we used to have to heat our food on a stove or in the oven for thirty minutes.

Ah, the stove, yes I remember it well!

Okay, here is the million dollar question, have you ever had a possessed appliance?

I have a possessed stereo and ceiling light, but I guess those don’t count.

Of course they do!

I don’t want ANY of my appliances to become possessed. The last thing I want to do is wake up in the middle of the night with my stove standing over my bed with all four burners lit. It’s obvious that growing up watching countless episodes of The Twilight Zone has had an impact on my life.

Well since I  not only own a possessed dishwasher, but I let it ask questions of my guests, I guess you know what I watched growing up.

Marcia what  is the best present you ever gave yourself?

My two, adorable pugs, a bunch of chinchillas…..and a very large jar of Nutella.

What does being possessed mean to you?

There is a fine line between being possessed and being obsessed. I think of possessions as a time when something or someone controls your thoughts and actions. It leads to an obsession.

When that little diet-cheater voice in my head tells me to go ahead and take a small bite of key lime pie in the fridge, I’ll do it. But then I become obsessed with it and eat more and more until it’s all gone. When the family asks what happened to the pie, I blame it on the dog.

Always a good plan!

What possesses you right now?

The sweet siren song of chocolate. Blogging. And a lot of wine.

Is this something that possessed you five years ago?

I was BORN chocolate possessed.

Perfect. Just one more reason to love you!

What do you think will possess you five years from now?

It will still be chocolate, wine and writing. All three together are a heavenly trifecta.

Many, many, thanks to Marcia for getting possessed with Dishwasher and me today. Do yourself a favor and check out Menopausal Mom, you will be very glad you did. And don’t forget to follow her on, Twitter Facebook,  Pinterest and Google +

 

 

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  1. Janine Huldie says

    March 20, 2014 at 6:18 am

    So happy to see you both here together today. Marcia, you sound, so much like my own mom with the computer and surprised now that she doesn’t have her own blog, but will say she is Facebook now even more then I am! That said, I love that you taught yourself the computer and that you are now as obsessed with blogging as the rest of us (myself included). And my girls, by the way, are the same way with our refrigerator and seriously keep wondering what they think will magically appear next, too here!! 🙂
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    • Marcia @ Menopausal Mother says

      March 20, 2014 at 7:41 am

      LOL thanks, Janine! What is it with kids and the refrigerator???
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    • Kathy Radigan says

      March 20, 2014 at 10:28 am

      Thanks for stopping by Janine! Marcia is so amazing and I love that like me, she also came to blogging later in life. My kids do the same thing with the refrigerator too! xo

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  2. Marcia @ Menopausal Mother says

    March 20, 2014 at 6:24 am

    Thank you so much for having me over to your possessed dishwasher today, Kathy. What fun!!
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    • Kathy Radigan says

      March 20, 2014 at 10:29 am

      Marcia, thank you!!! I am such a fan and I had so much fun doing this with you!! xox

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  3. andrea brovetto says

    March 20, 2014 at 7:09 am

    Great Post Kathy! Marcia sounds like she really loves Life! I also loved the shared stories of her sister and the pelicans!. Thanks for a fun spot in my day!

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    • Marcia @ Menopausal Mother says

      March 20, 2014 at 7:40 am

      Thanks for stopping by for the read, Andrea!
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    • Kathy Radigan says

      March 20, 2014 at 10:30 am

      Mom, I knew you were going to love Marcia’s beautiful post about her sister. xo

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  4. Courtney Conover says

    March 20, 2014 at 8:07 am

    Hey, Marcia!! It’s Courtney from The Brown Girl with Long Hair blog! Congrats on being featured! Your answers are so entertaining. (I had a possessed stereo in the condo I owned before I got married (I think it was the ghost of the former owner, but I digress), and your Nutella response made me smile. 🙂

    Great interview, Kathy!

    Happy Spring to the both of you.
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    • Marcia @ Menopausal Mother says

      March 20, 2014 at 9:43 am

      Thanks, Courtney! Isn’t it freaky when stereos act up? Mine used to play “Dancing Queen” at 3:00am—no record, tape, CD or anything. Just the radio. It just came on by itself, blasting that song. Happened 2-3 times over the course of a month, then suddenly stopped. But we already know we have friendly ghosts inhabiting our old house, so it’s all good!
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      • Courtney Conover says

        March 20, 2014 at 10:12 am

        Hey, at least it was a good song! lol
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    • Kathy Radigan says

      March 20, 2014 at 10:31 am

      Courtney thanks so much for coming by! I love that you had a possessed stereo, it’s so sad what makes me happy! Lol!

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  5. Beth Teliho says

    March 20, 2014 at 8:57 am

    Ah, one of my favorite ladies on the planet. I love your questions, Kathy, and your answers were awesome, Marcia! I love that you have a petting zoo in your house haha! I knew this about you, but I’m still in awe of your chinchillas. When I see them at the pet store I melt.

    I’m stunned you didn’t know anything about computers just two years ago! Wow. You are even more bad-ass to me now. 🙂
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    • Kathy Radigan says

      March 20, 2014 at 1:42 pm

      Thanks so much for coming on by Beth! I think Marcia is amazing too! 🙂

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      • Marcia @ Menopausal Mother says

        March 20, 2014 at 10:21 pm

        Hahahaha Beth, you are too sweet! I still have a LOT to learn about computers—just ask my obnoxious teenage son!
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  6. Diane says

    March 20, 2014 at 10:52 am

    Two of my favourite bloggers. In the same blog! It’s a perfect day…
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    • Kathy Radigan says

      March 20, 2014 at 12:45 pm

      Diane thanks so much, you made my day! Happy first day of Spring! 🙂

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    • Marcia @ Menopausal Mother says

      March 20, 2014 at 10:22 pm

      Thanks for coming by, Diane—I totally appreciate all your support.
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  7. Mis Anthropy says

    March 20, 2014 at 11:47 am

    Nice interview Mama!

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    • Kathy Radigan says

      March 20, 2014 at 12:44 pm

      Thanks so much! Marica is such an amazing lady, I’m so glad you came on by!

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    • Marcia @ Menopausal Mother says

      March 20, 2014 at 10:22 pm

      Thank you!
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  8. Mary Buchan says

    March 20, 2014 at 12:16 pm

    You both have brightened my day! Thank you!

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    • Kathy Radigan says

      March 20, 2014 at 12:43 pm

      Thank you Mary! Happy Spring!

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    • Marcia @ Menopausal Mother says

      March 20, 2014 at 10:31 pm

      So cool and I’m so happy you’re here!!
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  9. Kymberly (@KymberlyFunFit) says

    March 20, 2014 at 5:35 pm

    Your dishwasher wants to date my refrigerator. Is that so wrong?
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    • Kathy Radigan says

      March 20, 2014 at 7:50 pm

      Not wrong at all!! Lol!

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    • Marcia @ Menopausal Mother says

      March 20, 2014 at 10:32 pm

      LOL good one!
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  10. Kim says

    March 20, 2014 at 6:53 pm

    Bwahaha. As always, I love Marcia. Such an incredible and hilarious woman! I also love that she’s so relatable in her posts and throughout social media. Huge win for a blogger, especially when it’s occasionally hard to find things to relate to.
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    • Kathy Radigan says

      March 20, 2014 at 7:50 pm

      I could not agree more Kim! Thanks so much for on over! 🙂

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    • Marcia @ Menopausal Mother says

      March 20, 2014 at 10:33 pm

      Awwwww…thanks, Kim! You just made my day!!!!!
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  11. Ice Scream Mama says

    April 3, 2014 at 7:52 am

    ha! my kids definitely would want to visit your house. and we can hang out over wine and chocolate. 🙂
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